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Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
You want love and are terrified of it in equal measure.
The fearful-avoidant pattern lives in the contradiction of desperately wanting connection while finding it deeply threatening. Often rooted in early experiences of harm within attachment relationships, it creates a nervous system that says both "come close" and "stay back" simultaneously.
What this means
Fearful-avoidant attachment often develops when the primary caregiver was both the source of comfort and the source of fear.
The push-pull you experience in relationships is not confusion — it's a nervous system running two incompatible programs at once.
Healing this pattern requires building safety in the body first, not just the mind.
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