Why You Love Too Hard, Wait Too Long, and Fear Every Goodbye Before It Happens
You love before it is safe to love. You wait past the point where the evidence has spoken. You feel every goodbye before it happens, and brace for loss in the middle of being loved. This book is for the person whose nervous system never received the message that it was safe to arrive. It maps the anxious attachment wound, the slot-machine pull of intermittent love, the reassurance loop, and the double bind of loving someone who cannot quite stay. Then it charts the way out.
Nikita is the author of You Are the Love You Seek, Healing the Father Wound, Was It Abuse? and more. Founder of The Elysian Sanctuary. For speaking: hello@nikitadatar.com
