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The Myth of Self-Love as Softness

  1. Hook slide — The Myth of Self-Love as Softness

    The Myth of Self-Love as Softness

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  2. The insight — Self-love isn't a pastel thing. It's the hardest discipline there is — which is exactly why most people settle for af...

    Self-love isn't a pastel thing. It's the hardest discipline there is — which is exactly why most people settle for af...

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  3. The truth — The Myth of Self-Love as Softness

    The truth about the myth of self-love as softness

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  4. Key takeaway — Self-love isn't a pastel thing. It's the hardest discipline there is — which is exactly why most people settle for af...

    Self-love isn't a pastel thing. It's the hardest discipline there is — which is exactly why most people settle for af...

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    Read the full piece at nikitadatar.com

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Self-love isn't a pastel thing. It's the hardest discipline there is — which is exactly why most people settle for affirmations instead of confrontation.

 

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