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What Stops You at the Threshold (Why Turning Back Happens Exactly When Change Is Real)

  1. Hook slide — What Stops You at the Threshold (Why Turning Back Happens Exactly When Change Is Real)

    What Stops You at the Threshold (Why Turning Back Happens Exactly When Change Is Real)

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  2. The insight — The self-abandonment wound produces a specific experience at the threshold of change: the person gets close to someth...

    The self-abandonment wound produces a specific experience at the threshold of change: the person gets close to someth...

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  3. The truth — What Stops You at the Threshold (Why Turning Back Happens Exactly When Change Is Real)

    The truth about what stops you at the threshold (why turning back happens exactly when change is real)

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  4. Key takeaway — The self-abandonment wound produces a specific experience at the threshold of change: the person gets close to someth...

    The self-abandonment wound produces a specific experience at the threshold of change: the person gets close to someth...

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The self-abandonment wound produces a specific experience at the threshold of change: the person gets close to something genuinely different, something that would require a real shift in how they…

 

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