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What You Actually Want (The Desire the Wound Suppressed)

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    What You Actually Want (The Desire the Wound Suppressed)

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  2. The insight — The self-abandonment wound runs a specific pattern around desire: the person has difficulty knowing what they want, d...

    The self-abandonment wound runs a specific pattern around desire: the person has difficulty knowing what they want, d...

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  3. The truth — What You Actually Want (The Desire the Wound Suppressed)

    The truth about what you actually want (the desire the wound suppressed)

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  4. Key takeaway — The self-abandonment wound runs a specific pattern around desire: the person has difficulty knowing what they want, d...

    The self-abandonment wound runs a specific pattern around desire: the person has difficulty knowing what they want, d...

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The self-abandonment wound runs a specific pattern around desire: the person has difficulty knowing what they want, difficulty asking for it, and difficulty receiving it when it is given. This…

 

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