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Why Healing Sometimes Feels Like Falling Apart (And Why That Means It Is Working)

  1. Hook slide — Why Healing Sometimes Feels Like Falling Apart (And Why That Means It Is Working)

    Why Healing Sometimes Feels Like Falling Apart (And Why That Means It Is Working)

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  2. The insight — The hardest part of changing the self-abandonment pattern is not the beginning. It is the phase midway through when t...

    The hardest part of changing the self-abandonment pattern is not the beginning. It is the phase midway through when t...

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  3. The truth — Why Healing Sometimes Feels Like Falling Apart (And Why That Means It Is Working)

    The truth about why healing sometimes feels like falling apart (and why that means it is working)

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  4. Key takeaway — The hardest part of changing the self-abandonment pattern is not the beginning. It is the phase midway through when t...

    The hardest part of changing the self-abandonment pattern is not the beginning. It is the phase midway through when t...

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The hardest part of changing the self-abandonment pattern is not the beginning. It is the phase midway through when things feel worse than before the work started.

 

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