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Why You Are Always Last on Your Own List (And What That Is Costing You)

  1. Hook slide — Why You Are Always Last on Your Own List (And What That Is Costing You)

    Why You Are Always Last on Your Own List (And What That Is Costing You)

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  2. The insight — The relationship with food, sleep, and physical care is often a direct map of the self-abandonment wound: the last th...

    The relationship with food, sleep, and physical care is often a direct map of the self-abandonment wound: the last th...

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  3. The truth — Why You Are Always Last on Your Own List (And What That Is Costing You)

    The truth about why you are always last on your own list (and what that is costing you)

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  4. Key takeaway — The relationship with food, sleep, and physical care is often a direct map of the self-abandonment wound: the last th...

    The relationship with food, sleep, and physical care is often a direct map of the self-abandonment wound: the last th...

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The relationship with food, sleep, and physical care is often a direct map of the self-abandonment wound: the last thing the person attends to is themselves. This piece examines how the…

 

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