Home / Carousels / Why You Keep Checking on Someone Who No Longer Chooses YouCarousel · healing · 2026-11-01

Why You Keep Checking on Someone Who No Longer Chooses You

  1. Hook slide — Why You Keep Checking on Someone Who No Longer Chooses You

    Why You Keep Checking on Someone Who No Longer Chooses You

    Slide 1 of 5

  2. The insight — Why you keep checking on someone who has moved on. The psychology of anxious monitoring after a friendship or relatio...

    Why you keep checking on someone who has moved on. The psychology of anxious monitoring after a friendship or relatio...

    Slide 2 of 5

  3. The truth — Why You Keep Checking on Someone Who No Longer Chooses You

    The truth about why you keep checking on someone who no longer chooses you

    Slide 3 of 5

  4. Key takeaway — Why you keep checking on someone who has moved on. The psychology of anxious monitoring after a friendship or relatio...

    Why you keep checking on someone who has moved on. The psychology of anxious monitoring after a friendship or relatio...

    Slide 4 of 5

  5. Read more at nikitadatar.com

    Read the full piece at nikitadatar.com

    Slide 5 of 5

Full caption

Why you keep checking on someone who has moved on. The psychology of anxious monitoring after a friendship or relationship ends.

 

If this resonates, save it — and read the full piece at the link in bio.

 

✦ This Is How You Choose Yourself — now available at shop.nikitadatar.com

✦ Subscribe to The Elysian Press at substack.com/@nikitadatar

 

#selflove#healing#innerwork#choosingyourself#selfabandonment#attachment#friendshiploss#grief

From the book

Unfriended

A Guide to Grieving the Friendships We Never Got to Mourn

About the book