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The first nine chapters. The prologue. The full table of contents. Three ways to read it.

The Life That Is Already Yours is the complete neuroscience, psychology, somatics, philosophy, and anatomy of the unlived life. One hundred sixteen chapters. Six hundred ninety-two pages. The free preview gives you the prologue, the first nine chapters, and the full architecture of the book so you can read for as long as the work asks to be read before deciding.

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3. Buy the full book

The complete 116-chapter book is available in paperback and Kindle on Amazon. This is the full architecture: the body, the relationships, the money, the creativity, the culture, the wisdom traditions, and the opening of the loop.

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What is in the preview

  • Before We Begin — the orientation note from the author
  • Prologue — You Have Been Living Beside Your Own Life
  • Chapter 1 — You Were Born Into a Life That Was Already Yours
  • Chapter 2 — The Room That Required Less of You
  • Chapter 3 — The Nervous System That Learned to Disappear
  • Chapter 4 — The Brain That Was Predicting the Whole Time
  • Chapter 5 — The One Who Was Always Reading the Room
  • Chapter 6 — What Arrived Before You Did
  • Chapter 7 — The Conclusion the Child Reached Before Language
  • Chapter 8 — The Story That Changes What Happened
  • Chapter 9 — The Child Who Is Still Waiting
  • The full table of contents for all 116 chapters

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