“The way you love is not a flaw. It is a strategy. You learned it in an environment where love was never consistent.”

— Nikita Datar

“Earned security is possible. The attachment patterns you were given are not the ones you are stuck with.”

— Nikita Datar

“Avoidant attachment is not independence. It is a nervous system that learned that closeness brings pain.”

— Nikita Datar

“You attract what feels familiar, not what is good for you. Until you distinguish between the two.”

— Nikita Datar