She Was Not Low Maintenance, She Was Trained

For Women Unlearning People Pleasing, Self-Erasure, and the Lie That Needing Less Makes You More Lovable

She was not low maintenance. She was trained. Trained by early environments that rewarded accommodation and punished need. Trained by relationships that confirmed: wanting less makes you more lovable. This book names the training, traces it to its source, and begins the work of unlearning it. For the woman who has spent years making herself smaller, easier, less costly, and is ready to ask what she actually wants.

by Nikita Datar

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