Attachment

“The room is not destiny. The loop installed in that room is not permanent. It is the predictable product of specific conditions. The conditions have already changed.”

— Nikita Datar, The Life That Is Already Yours
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“The way you love is not a flaw. It is a strategy. You learned it in an environment where love was never consistent.”

— Nikita Datar

“The intensity of the chase is not the same as love. Longing for someone is not the same as loving them.”

— Nikita Datar

“Earned security is possible. The attachment patterns you were given are not the ones you are stuck with.”

— Nikita Datar

“Avoidant attachment is not independence. It is a nervous system that learned that closeness brings pain.”

— Nikita Datar