Attachment

“The reassurance being sought cannot be provided by another person. Not because they are unwilling. Not because they do not love you. Because it is not located in another person.”

— Nikita Datar, The Waiting Is the Wound
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“The way you love is not a flaw. It is a strategy. You learned it in an environment where love was never consistent.”

— Nikita Datar

“The intensity of the chase is not the same as love. Longing for someone is not the same as loving them.”

— Nikita Datar

“Earned security is possible. The attachment patterns you were given are not the ones you are stuck with.”

— Nikita Datar

“Avoidant attachment is not independence. It is a nervous system that learned that closeness brings pain.”

— Nikita Datar